Stop the hate!
Have you ever been in a situation that you couldn't control, but you still felt embarrased? Embarrassed of what the world aka (spectators, friends, family, coworkers etc) would think of you if they found out? So you keep the embarrassed situation a secret between you and your mind. Driving yourself crazy from bottling it all in....
That is not a healthy way to live. I have been down this road many of plenty of times. It is a lonley road, it is a very sad road.
Why do we do this?
Because the way our society is set up we make a mistake or something bad happens to us, we are quick to judge one another. We do not try to figure out what actually happened. Our first thoughts are to say "oh wow she's dumb" "how did she let that happen" "she needs to get her life together" "she got what she deserved" "omg, that would never happen to me" You see the problem? We are so fast to jump to conclusions and sterotype without knowing the #facts. We live in a world filled with hate. We live in a world where people don't want to help each other, or support each other. We live in a world where everything is competition. Who has the happiest relationship, who has the prettiest kids, who has the biggest house, who's man is faithful and who's man isn't. It's crazy and nonsense. And why our society is F'd up. You have friends on Facebook who never like any of your post, but they are posting how we need to support each other on thier page. They are hypocritical, if your reading this and you are guilty of doing that yes I am talking to you. How can we expect to see a change in the world if we can't even change our own mindsets and start supporting each other more instead of trying to compete. The moral of this story is some one may need a friend or someone to vent to but they can't because they are afraid of what someone may think of them. They become embarrassed of who they are or embarrassed of what they went through although they had no control of it. I myself am ashamed to live in a era like that. That we have people afraid to open up and be themselves because of the bullying, the criticism. Just like when that baby fell into the gorilla exhibit at the zoo. We all were so quick to jump on the mom and call her this name and that name. But none of us was there. And don't you think the mom is already beating herself up about it, why and what gives us the power to lay judgement. That is the problem we are so focused on others life and noticing the flaws but we really need to be worried about ourselves and what we can do to change ourselves and those around us in a positive way. Focus on how you can impact the world. Uplift people, empower them, you don't need to break someone down who is already broken. We need to learn how to use kindness and love and support more in our society.